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The Selection is a legal execution of the ego. The true cost of joining the elite commandos - Maj...
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The Selection is a legal execution of the ego. The true cost of joining the elite commandos - Maj...

Cyprian Majcher
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TL;DR

The four things you'd lose by not watching

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TL;DR

The four things you'd lose by not watching

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Major Arkadiusz Kubs returns after 10 years with his original selection – preselection June 21 near Wrocław, final July 8-12 at the Drawsko training ground; only 8-10% of participants pass.

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Women on the selection have a mental advantage: they calculate coolly, don't burn out on ambition – a female finisher showed that 20 minutes of undressing, wringing clothes dry, and changing into a dry fleece gave her an edge over men who slept wet and dropped out with fungal infections.

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The true key to the selection is uncertainty – participants never know the plan, duration, or tasks; this uncertainty is practiced already at the equipment selection stage (Gore-Tex vs. canvas shoes, sleeping bag vs. painter's foil).

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Among the graduates are ultramarathon finishers, Seven Summits conquerors, and Runmageddon competitors – the selection is, according to the major, a 'legal execution of the ego', after which people discover who they really are.

Protocols

Concrete recipes — what, when, how much, and why

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Selection pushup (pompka selekcyjna)

WhatBend arms to a bottom position with no chest contact, lift one leg off the ground, and hold under continuous tension for as many series as demanded, never counting reps.
WhenDuring the Selection's 'slaughterhouse' session at Lake Trzebuń Mały, or as a training drill for mental and triceps endurance.
DoseNo set number; performed in series until the instructor detects failure or cheating, or the participant quits.
For whomSelection participants and anyone who wants to forge mental honesty.
WhyTests integrity under fatigue: you either do a real pushup or you stand up and leave. The isometric hold with a unilateral leg lift burns the triceps and exposes charlatans.
CaveatsExtremely high stress on the triceps and shoulder; requires proper spotting. Cheating (half-reps, touching the ground) leads to immediate confrontation.

Major Kubs describes dawn at the 'rzeźnia' (slaughterhouse) on the shore, mist rising from the lake, and rows of soaked participants pumping in unison without knowing how many they must do. He never counts; he instead watches for the first signs of collapse or dishonest movement. The rule – 'you either do something well or not at all' – is a life principle he hammers into every candidate. If you cannot perform a valid pushup, you stand up and voluntarily leave the line.

Mechanism

Isometric loading of the triceps and pectorals with one leg elevated shifts more bodyweight onto the working arm, creating a sustained metabolic stress that rapidly induces failure. Psychologically, it removes the rhythm of rep counting and forces the participant to confront the moment they want to quit.

This is a bend of the arms and one leg is lifted up and at that moment you stop at the bottom... we hold under tension, we are not resting at the bottom. We hold tension.

Also said
“you do real pushups, and if you can't do them, then you simply stand up and leave, not that I turn sideways and someone is doing a half pushup”— Frames the exercise as a test of character more than strength.

Wet gear micro-recovery protocol

WhatAt the first rest stop after prolonged rain, completely undress, wring out every garment, hang to dry, change into a dry spare layer, arrange boots for rapid exit, then sleep.
WhenDuring any multi-day wet operation when you have at least a 20-minute halt.
DoseSacrifice 20 minutes of sleep for the procedure.
For whomEndurance athletes, soldiers, selection candidates.
WhyPrevents fungal infections, maceration, and hypothermia; the quality of the remaining rest outweighs the lost minutes.
CaveatsRequires a spare dry set and sufficient ambient temperature to hang clothes; may be psychologically hard to do in front of others.

The protocol is drawn directly from the story of the female finisher. After three days of rain, at 2 AM under a shelter, she stripped completely, wrung out every item, hung them, positioned her boots for immediate donning, put on a dry polar suit, and only then slept. She lost 20 minutes but remained combat-effective. In contrast, men who collapsed in their wet Gore-Tex suits developed groin fungus, foot rot, and were physically destroyed within three hours. Major Kubs presents this as a case study in tactical micro-recovery.

Mechanism

Wet fabric against skin prevents evaporative cooling regulation, causing rapid heat loss and softening of the stratum corneum, which invites fungal colonization and blisters; a dry microclimate allows the skin to recover and insulation to function.

She undressed completely naked, wrung out everything, hung it up, laid down her backpack, positioned her boots for quick evacuation... She lost 20 minutes.

Also said
“Those guys who just collapsed as they stood, half of them dropped out after three hours, because they all had fungus in their groins...”— Demonstrates the catastrophic consequence of ignoring this protocol.

Canvas shoe strategy for sustained wet marches

WhatUse two pairs of non-waterproof, quick-drying shoes (e.g., canvas trampki) instead of Gore-Tex boots; change when wet, letting the other pair dry in the sun.
WhenSummer operations with water crossings or heavy dew; not for freezing conditions.
DoseCarry one spare pair; rotate as needed, typically dry in a few hours.
For whomMilitary, selection candidates, long-distance hikers in warm climates.
WhyWaterproof boots, once breached, trap water and cause maceration; simple shoes drain and dry fast, preventing foot breakdown.
CaveatsNot suitable for cold or snowy environments where insulation is needed; adds weight of a spare pair.

Major Kubs references Afghan fighters who wore only canvas sneakers and carried a second pair, knowing that by 11 AM the dew-soaked pair would be dry. He has watched modern candidates show up in expensive Gore-Tex boots only to develop severe fungal infections because the boots never dried. The footwear choice is one of the first strategic decisions a candidate makes, and it often predicts their ability to adapt.

Mechanism

Gore-Tex membranes are vapor-permeable but not liquid-permeable once saturated from inside; waterlogged boots become micro-saunas. Canvas allows free drainage and rapid evaporative drying, especially after morning dew.

Whether Gore-Tex boots, or like the mujahideen in Afghanistan, canvas shoes and a second pair to change, because those canvas shoes by 11:00 AM will already be dry from the morning dew.

Also said
“because that backpack has to be pushed”— Reminds that every gram of wet gear is punished with distance.

Deprivation-gratitude diet

WhatFor the first 3-4 days, provide only hardtack, canned meat, and paprykarz (fish paste); then give a single cup of tea with sugar and later a slice of bread.
WhenDuring the Selection's mid-phase.
DoseWater and food available ad libitum of the specified items; bread only on day 4 or 5.
For whomSelection participants; can be adapted for any extreme reset experience.
WhyBy removing all flavor and comfort, you re-sensitize participants to the joy of basic foods, creating a powerful psychological reward and teaching gratitude for everyday things.
CaveatsMust ensure sufficient caloric intake and hydration; not a weight-loss diet. Not recommended for those with eating disorders.

Major Kubs recounts how, after three days of wet and cold, a simple cup of tea with sugar is delivered to each person, and they sip it for 15 minutes, practically in ecstasy. A slice of bread, which they haven't had for days, becomes an overwhelming sensory experience – its smell, its texture in the mouth. He deliberately uses the hated paprykarz to create a negative association, so that years later, smelling it brings back the whole ordeal. One past participant wrote that he would never touch paprykarz again.

Mechanism

Sensory monotony and mild discomfort upregulate the brain's reward response to novel stimuli; the dopamine surge from the first hot, sweet liquid after days of cold rations creates an emotional and physiological high that reinforces endurance.

When on the third or fourth day you get a slice of bread, only then do you appreciate how that bread smells, how it settles in your mouth, and before that you eat only hardtack. ...a cup of tea arrives for everyone, ordinary prosaic tea with sugar. And people savor that tea for 15 minutes, sipping and practically climaxing.

Also said
“To the end of my life I will not put paprykarz in my mouth.”— Quote from a graduate showing the depth of the sensory conditioning.

Claustrophobia desensitization via underwater tunnels

WhatSwim under pontoons with only a few centimeters of air gap, crawl through underground pipes, and enter flooded wells with siphons to inoculate against panic in tight spaces.
WhenDuring the psychological obstacles phase of selection and special forces training.
DoseRepeated exposures under close supervision until the participant stops panicking.
For whomSelection participants with claustrophobia or water fear.
WhyMany physically robust candidates fail because they cannot control panic in confined or dark underwater spaces; gradual forced exposure rewires the threat response.
CaveatsExtreme risk of drowning; must be conducted with spotters in wetsuits, medics on standby, and pre-checked obstacles. Not for unsupervised training.

He describes a girl who nearly drowned on her first attempt because of severe claustrophobia while swimming under a pontoon, the space so tight she could barely fit her mouth to breathe. She persisted, finished the Selection, and later ran 200-300 km ultramarathons. The obstacle course includes a 'psychological track' with a labyrinth, concrete pipes, and water-filled chambers. He says the track was used by Poland's best special forces and remains a fundamental crucible for candidates.

Mechanism

Repeated, controlled exposure to the phobic stimulus reduces amygdala hyperactivation and builds cognitive reliance on breathing technique, eventually breaking the panic loop.

she had a problem with claustrophobia, and there was swimming under platforms in such a small space that you only have enough room to fit your mouth, because you lie on your back and scoot

Also said
“She finished that selection, and later I find out that she ran ultramarathons of 200, 300 km.”— Evidence of lasting psychological transformation.

Deliberate uncertainty march

WhatAfter a hard training session, instead of rest, order a march with no known endpoint; walk lap after lap without telling participants when it will stop.
WhenDuring the Selection or in preparative training camps.
DoseVariable, until the instructor decides the psychological point has been made.
For whomSpecial operations candidates.
WhyPeople are accustomed to structured workouts; removing the finish line forces the mind to accept the possibility of infinite effort, which breaks ego and builds true stamina.
CaveatsRisk of physical overuse if not monitored; must ensure hydration and signs of rhabdomyolysis.

Major Kubs explains that the whole trick of training is to erect a wall in front of a man and make him climb it with immense effort. If the wall is higher next time, he will still climb it because he now believes he can. The march with no end is one such wall. He mentions that even participants' own bodies rebel less when they stop looking for the finish line. This is paired with the principle of total unpredictability – they never know if the next event is shooting, water, or a psychological test.

Mechanism

The brain's default mode networks fatigue prediction; when the brain cannot predict an end, it must stop sending 'stop' signals, thereby extending the physical performance ceiling. This is a classical stress inoculation technique.

we are accustomed, you finished training, you want to rest, but no, here is a march. When will this march end? I don't know, one lap, second lap, third lap.

Also said
“The whole trick with training is that you erect a wall in front of a man and he must climb that wall with immense effort...”— Encapsulates the philosophical framework behind the protocol.

Poem memorization under extreme duress

WhatAt 2 AM, after days of sleep deprivation, burst into the sleeping area and demand a perfectly recited long poem (e.g., Tuwim, Herbert) under loud verbal harassment.
WhenNight 3 or 4 of the Selection.
DoseUsually one poem and a 28+ digit code per participant; re-test if they fail.
For whomSelection candidates.
WhyTests ability to store and retrieve fine information under maximal stress; separates those with true cognitive grit from those who crumble.
CaveatsNone; it is part of the official curriculum.

He tells of a massive, chiseled 190-cm man who crushed all physical tests but could not memorize under pressure. The major burst in three times at 2 AM, yelling, and the man kept stuttering. He was removed. Meanwhile, smaller, unassuming candidates sailed through. The poem becomes a personal mantra for life; past participants sometimes meet him and spontaneously recite their verse, shocking him.

Mechanism

High cortisol and catecholamines impair hippocampal memory retrieval; the task forces the prefrontal cortex to override the limbic panic, creating a lifelong cognitive anchor. Graduates report still being able to recite the poem years later.

this guy stands there, who, listen, under such dynamic, verbal pressure is unable to remember anything. I say: 'Buddy, I'm coming back in a moment and you recite that poem.' It's 2:00 AM, I burst in for the third time with a bang... he starts stuttering. I say: 'End.'

Also said
“these people after all these years recite their poem. That is a total shock to me.”— Shows the deep, positive encoding the stress creates.

What's new

Personal practice updates, fresh positions, predictions

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decline-of-male-resilience

Major Kubs argues that the modern young man lacks grit because life is too easy and digital, with everything handed to him; the masculine archetype is fading as women increasingly take the lead.

Why this matters: Challenges the narrative that vulnerability and therapy are the only paths to growth; instead points to comfort as the root of weakness.

Background

He contrasts his generation's scarcity and physical hardship with today's overparenting, screen addiction, and a school system that teaches test tricks instead of deep understanding.

Major Kubs observes that young people can read but cannot comprehend; they are unable to handle simple adversities like sleeping in a tent or walking alone in the dark. The lack of traditional two-parent families, the replacement of outdoor play with smartphones, and the atrophy of risk-taking have produced men who are 'set up' rather than leaders. He cites the example of Finland where infants nap outside in freezing temperatures and entire societies retain a closeness to nature, building resilience from childhood.

Personal experience

He personally always arrives 15 minutes early, checks his shoes are clean, and researches the person he meets. He sees young men being late and dismissive ('It's only an hour') as a sign of lost standards.

that masculine element is increasingly fading. It also stems from the fact that, you know what, everything is handed on a platter, that life has become easy, because why should I walk a kilometer in a slipper when I can take an electric scooter and ride?

Also said
“Young people can read, but they cannot understand what they read.”— Highlights the depth of cognitive decline beyond physical softness.
“Today, a challenge for a child is sleeping in a tent.”— Anchors the generational shift in a concrete, absurd example.

female-advantage-in-extremis

Women perform better in prolonged extreme conditions not because of physical strength, but because they stay mentally cool, avoid ego burnout, and prioritize micro-recovery like drying their gear immediately.

Why this matters: Upends the conventional wisdom that selection is purely a physical contest for men; provides a survival lesson applicable to anyone.

Background

Major Kubs noticed that while men are devoured by their own testosterone and ambition ('I must'), women approach the challenge with 'I can', which prevents the catastrophic burnout that leads to quitting.

He details the story of a female participant who, after three days of continuous rain, at 2 AM in a shelter, stripped completely naked, wrung out every piece of clothing, hung them to dry, arranged her boots for rapid exit, donned a dry polar fleece, and slept for three hours. She lost only 20 minutes. When the march resumed, she was functional. Half the men who had thrown themselves down in their wet Gore-Tex suits dropped out in the next three hours with severe fungal infections in the groin, chafed feet, and total body maceration. He also notes that women consistently perform better at sit-ups and can be superior at distance running. The key difference is psychological: women treat uncertainty as a puzzle, men as a threat.

She undressed completely naked, wrung out everything, hung it up, laid down her backpack, positioned her boots for quick evacuation... She lost 20 minutes. After three hours we moved out. She was tired, but she was reasonably rested. Those guys who just collapsed as they stood, half of them dropped out after three hours, because they all had fungus in their groins, had chafed feet, and were totally cooked.

selection-as-ego-death

The Selection is a legal execution of the ego – a deliberate ritual that strips participants to their raw self by removing all comfort, predictability, and social masks, forcing them to discover their true limits.

Why this matters: Title concept; explains why the event, despite its brutality, is sought after and transformative.

Background

Mainstream opinion might view it as mere physical hazing, but Major Kubs frames it as a necessary philosophical confrontation with the self.

He explains that the entire structure is engineered to break down the participant: from the initial gear calculation (every gram matters) through the deliberate unpredictability (no one knows when it ends) to the carefully timed deprivation (only hardtack for days, a slice of bread on day 4 feels like the greatest luxury). The participant is eventually brought to a point where he no longer cares about ego, only about the next step. At that moment, according to Major Kubs, the real person emerges. He receives emails for years afterward from people saying that the Selection was the place where they finally got to know themselves. He calls it the 'cherry on the cake' of his life's work.

To this day I get emails from people who passed the selection, or didn't pass the selection, but were on it, where they tell me that it was the place where they could get to know themselves, where they could learn the limit of their endurance, where there were moments when they managed to break through.

Also said
“The whole charm of this event, which is incredibly difficult, is that you strip a person down to such activities, to the prime factors, when he sees what he is capable of.”— Explains the 'ego death' mechanism in operational terms.
“When on the third or fourth day you get a slice of bread, only then do you appreciate how that bread smells, how it settles in your mouth...”— Illustrates how deprivation resets perception.

gear-strategy

Success in extreme multi-day events begins before the start with gear selection: the real game is calculating every gram against functionality, often choosing cheap, light, fast-drying items (trampki, painter's foil) over expensive technical gear that fails when wet.

Why this matters: Counters the consumerist assumption that more expensive gear equals better survival; offers a direct insight from decades of observing failures.

Background

He contrasts the early participants who wore tractor boots and flannel shirts with today's tech-equipped athletes who still break down because gear fails under sustained wet conditions.

Major Kubs points out that a 200-gram cup becomes a 2-kg burden after 50 km. He questions the wisdom of Gore-Tex boots and sleeping bags that cost 2000 zł but become useless once water breaches them. Instead, he suggests looking to Afghan fighters who used two pairs of simple canvas shoes; after a morning dew, the wet pair dries by 11 AM. He does not provide a gear list; participants must decide for themselves whether to bring a foam pad (heavy but warm) or aluminum foil (light but no comfort). This forces a strategic mindset from day one. He also notes that the first generations started with almost nothing and often acquired better gear from dropouts along the way.

Is it more worthwhile to take a foam pad or aluminum foil, which weighs less but gives no comfort or thermal insulation? Whether to take a sleeping bag, or just a tarp, or take Gore-Tex that costs, say, 2000, and when it gets wet, is it usable, or take ordinary painter's foil...

Also said
“a cup that weighs 20 decagrams after 50 km weighs 2 kilos or even more.”— Turns a mundane object into a visceral calculation error.
“Whether Gore-Tex boots, or like the mujahideen in Afghanistan, canvas shoes and a second pair to change, because those canvas shoes by 11:00 AM will already be dry from the morning dew.”— Concrete alternative drawn from a combat theater.

mandatory-military-service

With geopolitical threats and a demographically depleted reserve, Major Kubs demands mandatory military service for all, but only if it is a meaningful, nature-immersive forging ground, not a waste of time.

Why this matters: A blunt policy recommendation from a veteran that clashes with election-year politics and the modern 'army-as-corporation' model.

Background

He observes that the Polish army has lost the ethos of service, becoming a 9-to-5 job, while Scandinavian countries maintain a citizen-soldier model rooted in survival skills.

He opens with the adage that wars are started by professionals but finished by reservists, underscoring Poland's need. However, he insists that any conscription must avoid the pitfalls of empty drills or landscaping. Instead, it should emulate Finland, where individual soldiers are trained in water filtration and nature survival from a young age. He admits that no political party will touch it in an election year, but sees it as the only way to rebuild collective male resilience and practical skills that have been lost, like the ability to simply walk long distances.

looking at the current situation, the possibilities of reserves, and holding to the saying that wars are started by professionals and finished by reservists. I'll say briefly, yes, definitely yes.

Also said
“in this country, in such a geopolitical position, definitely yes, but that service... cannot be wasted time.”— Emphasizes the condition that service must be genuine, not wasted.
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Notable quotes

Lines worth pulling out — contrarian, specific, or perfectly phrased

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To the end of my life I will remember the stench of my comrades. To the end of my life I will not put paprykarz in my mouth. And to the end of my life, when it rains, when it's cold, I cuddle up to radiators. But I am proud that I finished such a prestigious event.
A raw, unforgettable encapsulation of the Selection's sensory imprint from a past participant.
Young people can read, but they cannot understand what they read.
A devastating indictment of modern education and cognitive decline.
In life, you do something well or you don't do it at all.
The moral backbone of the entire selection philosophy, applicable to every domain.
If I were killed, you would send a corporal to my wife.
A moment of personal crisis that reveals a deep crisis of faith in the officer corps.
There were multitudes of those falls to the ground and returns, but each time you stand up stronger, because every defeat, every fall you must forge into success.
Distills the growth-through-failure ethos that he believes modern society has lost.

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